I'm betting from the title you can tell what I've been dealing with. My Mother passed away from breast cancer on October 5, 2007. She never really wanted to talk about what her final wishes were until the last minute. Now I am working to make those things happen.
There are people out there that love to prey on you and your loved ones when you are highly emotional. Please, learn from my mistakes. People that appear to be to good to be true are. They seem so nice and are so helpful. In a heartbeat they will turn on you and lie. Get everything in writing, everything. That is why you should not make decisions in a rush. Take your time and think things threw. I did not have the think time I needed.
The material things are really not that important in the end. What was most important is that I talked to my Mother and said I loved her, she told me that she loved me. It was like we saw each other for the first time in years in that moment. All was forgiven on both sides. That is the important thing, the rest does not matter.